Discovering and developing the ‘Shared Experience’ of Relationships

My clients tell me over and over about their deep desire to share themselves in their relationships. They describe a very specific and unique experience that can be difficult to define. It is about our desire to have another person we care about deeply share in the experience of our world defined by what we see, feel, dream of, need and all that makes up our very essence. We want to be appreciated and enjoyed by another. We want to be special for our inspirations, our heart and our unique gifts.  We want to experience someone else sharing in our world, our thoughts, our devotions and our spirit. who we are, what we see.  We want our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual space to be recognized, respected and protected. We want to feel safe. We desire to feel in control of our own lives, choices, responses and thoughts. We want to be truly heard. We want to be truly seen. We want our hearts to be listened to, given attention, consideration and honor. We want to return this shared experience, having our partner allow us to share in their world, their essence, This is different than ‘being together’, ‘doing things together’, etc. This is an experience of sharing one’s self and having the other person completely be there for that experience. This desire is powerful and not often understood for what it truly represents.  It is incredibly inspiring when I witness couples begin to understand and honor the shared experience within their own relationship. There is an immediate awakening of their union and a deepening of the level at which they connect and experience life together.      

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